I just uploaded the new 1.01 version of our Apdev VideoPlayer to google-code.
We fixed/added some features some of you requested, like e.g.

• Volume button behavior changed
• VideoPlayer now fires events when the video’s play-state changes
• and some other minor changes…

VideoPlayer example: /examples/apdev_videoplayer/
HTML-embed example: /examples/apdev_videoplayer/html.html

We also updated the documentation.

So go and check it out: http://code.google.com/p/apdev-videoplayer/.
Or just download the new version directly: apdev-videoplayer-1.0.1